My Ex-Husband Stole My Id And Nearly Acquired Me Arrested

My ex-husband created a pretend Fb account and harassed his (different) ex-wife by pretending to be me. She instantly believed it was me and reported “me” to the police.

The story begins with my mom contacting me out of the blue to inform me that my children’ father’s ex-wife (a mouthful) had reached out to her to trash me. My mother would not inform me what was stated, solely that this girl had stated she deliberate to “spoil my life.”

I contacted my ex to inform him to inform his ex-wife to cease harassing my mom. My mother is older, and she or he’s weak and sick. She doesn’t want the stress. He agreed to inform this girl to again off. I believed that may be the top of it however how fallacious I used to be.

A number of days later, my ex contacted me on Fb Messenger (his solely mode of communication since he is unhoused and unemployed) to inform me that he contacted his ex-wife’s new husband concerning the harassment.

He advised his ex-wife’s husband that she was hooking up with him in a resort room and giving him cash. He additionally advised him that she was nonetheless stalking me on-line and harassing my mom.

I ended our chat and advised him I didn’t need him to debate me along with his ex-wife anymore. She has bullied and harassed me for 5 years.

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The Police Query Me About The Messages

I forgot concerning the drama till three days later; somebody knocked on my door at 8 A.M. I seemed by means of the peek gap and noticed it was the police. I opened the door and requested what they wanted.

They advised me that they had a report of harassment and so they wanted to debate it with me. They stated that my ex’s ex-wife contacted them and crammed out a police report accusing me of harassing her on Fb.

I denied it. I advised them I had proof of who was behind the harassment: our mutual ex. I confirmed them my telephone of my ex-husband’s Fb messages. 

One of many officers stepped outdoors to name the ex-wife. I heard him telling her that I used to be not behind her harassment — it seemed prefer it was her ex-husband. They advised me she was shocked because the display title that contacted her was in my title.

That is when it hit me: My ex-husband created a pretend profile in my title with my image to harass his ex-wife and put the blame on me. It was vindictive, however it did not work.

The police left and stated that if I had additional contact with my ex, I ought to name them.

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My Ex Unravels, Once more

I did not have contact with my ex for a number of days after that — till he wanted cash. I blocked him for a number of weeks, however he emailed me asking to be unblocked. He promised to be respectful, so I unblocked him.

That is when he repeatedly began asking me for cash. I refused, and he fully unraveled. This time, the insults began, accusing me of making pretend profiles (one thing I’ve by no means accomplished) and claiming I used to be a “show-off.”

He revealed the hospital was admitting him to the psych unit for malnutrition, despair, and anxiousness. He demanded I carry the children to see him on the hospital, or he would by no means communicate to me once more.

I used to be joyful to listen to he would lastly be getting the psychological well being remedy he wants. However I had no plans to carry the children to see him till he was in a greater psychological place; that they had endured sufficient childhood trauma as a result of his poor decisions.

After a couple of fruitless exchanges, I blocked him for good. If he needs to see the youngsters, he can go to court docket and petition for supervised visitation.

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After this final expertise with my ex, I am pretty assured my conflicts along with his ex-wife are all his doing. He did not need me to have an opportunity to inform her my story or the reality about him. He poisoned me towards her so she would deem me “loopy” and “unstable.” It allowed him to hand-feed her the knowledge he wished her to know and twisted the reality.

After soul-searching, I do not hate his ex-wife. I pity her. I really feel unhealthy she was so simply manipulated by a person who reveals narcissistic qualities. I am glad she divorced him. Hopefully, her freedom from his toxicity will enhance her life.

I’d additionally like for her to cease cyberstalking me. I would really like her to see I am not the issue. I’m his sufferer, and our youngsters will, for higher or worse, ceaselessly bond us. She’s lucky she did not have a baby with him.

I am certain he will not go away me alone. For that matter, though I’m not a risk to her, his ex-wife will most likely proceed to hunt revenge on me, too. However I refuse to have interaction. I can’t let their distress disrupt my life anymore.

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Chrissie Massey is a author who likes to share her life experiences along with her readers. She has contributed to Yahoo Information, Examiner, Inquisitr, Newsbreak, and Medium.